I don't want to grow up...

Ugh. It is that time that I stop loafing around. My sister put the bug in daycare and I have been unemployed for the past 2 weeks. It is driving me batty. I do however start Public Storage (again) on May 20th. Joy. Glee. I am actually moving back in with my mom. I am cleaning out my old bedroom pieces at a time. It is soooo dusty in there. I didnt clean for like 3 months before I left and I have been gone since August. So, it is about a year of dust and grossness lol. I donated alot of soes and clothes to goodwill. That filled me with warm fuzzy feelings. All I have to do is go clean my entire room. Everything is out of it for the most part. However, I do not plan on being home long. I think I will be moving in with the BF.

Exciting? YES!
Awesome? YES!
Too soon? I DON'T THINK SO!

I know we have only been officially "together" for a little over 2 months, but we have been seeing one another for 3, and I feel like it is a perfect match. Oh, btw, since you couldn't see the links in my other post....here is a pic of the two of us.

Aint we cute? lol
Anyway, we along with Liam are looking into some places. So hopefully all of this will work out so I don't have to be home long. I want to be an adult so bad, but at the same time...am scared out of my mind. Ugh. Ok. Well, enough blogging, I have things to do....Ciao!

I'm BAAAAAAAaaaaaaaaaaaaack!

Yes tis true. I am blogging. Would you like to know why this time? Ok...here ya go..




For the love of god people. LET IT GO! Those pictures are no different than if she were at the beach with a bunch of her friends and took a picture in her bathing suit! Just because she is in the public eye, this makes her a whore. HELLO!? Vanessa Hudgens didn't get this much publicity and she was nekkid in her pictures. I think that this whole Miley Cyrus fiasco needs to end. It is ridiculous and uncalled for. Anyone who thinks this makes her a bad influence needs to come out from the rock they live under.

Onto a more uplifting note...still with the boyfriend. Happier than I ever have been. I have waited my whole life to be this happy. YAY!
Ok...I must play with the Cheekers....See yas!

Attack the Pillows

My dad bought one of those new FLiP camera things. Well, I am slowly but surely uploading the videos. This seems to be the only one that loaded and it took over 4 hours to do som on YouTube. So...hope you enjoy Ethan and myself in...

Attack the Pillows lol

Stay in my world a little while longer

That's right. There are some things I forgot. haha. we will start with 11 since we left off at 10 lol

11. If I text you...text me back. It is my BIGGEST pet peeve. Well, not my biggest. But a big one. Or if I text you and you call me. Don't do that. I text you cause I don't want to pick up my phone.

12. Use punctuation in messages.

13. Please, when out at a bar, do NOT take 70 of your friends into the bathroom with you. You are a girl, I understand you need atleast one. MAYBE 2...anymore than that makes it too crowded.

14. If you are white...act it. That may sound racist, I don't care.

15. Men, when picking up a girl...cat calls are NEVER a good idea. Neither is "Hey mami wassup babigirl" NO NO! Also, please don't message me on here with..."Dayum girl...you got bootiful eyes" If you can't spell BEAUTIFUL don't right it. If you think that is cute...it isn't.

16. Stop being a douche.

17. Turn signals. They are there for a reason. When you are done turning...make sure they go off. I don't want to ride behind you wondering if you're going to be turning soon.

18. If I can feel your cars bass in my ass when you drive by my house...it's too loud!

19. Just ebcause they MAKE the shirt in your size...doesn't mean you should BUY it!

20. If I order something by the value meal...it means I want the value meal...not JUST the sanwich. You stupid whore.

Thats all I can think of for now...hope you all enjoy my ranting lol

Step into my world won't you?

Personally, I don't think that I am an overly difficult person to understand/please/get along with. However, the general public sees otherwise. My friends know how I am and now I think that the public should as well. I am taking some time this morning to type out a few things that get on my nerves. Some things you may care about, some you may not...I don't care either way...so read on if you have some time to kill....



1. When in a crowded bar...please...look up. Tall people hang out at bars too. We aren't all 5'4! How you tend to miss the 5'9, I will never know.

2. When I am out with the kid...please, feel free to smile at him, but under NO circumstances are you to touch him. This is along the same lines as touching a pregnant strangers belly. You will be lucky if you don't pull back a bloody stump.

3.Don't talk to me. Unless you are waiting on me or only need to say excuse me...just don't engage me in conversation *gee, I wonder why I usually have issues finding men lol* I am NOT a talkative person. Also, a sidebar to that....don't try and sell me things. Especially when I say no after the first time. I don't care if it is brand new in the box. I don't need it...if I needed it I would have it. Unless you have a million dollars you need to get rid of for like $20....um...don't try and sell me anything. lol

4. Learn to navigate a circle. If you are from NJ and don't know how to work a circle...move to another state. It isn't that hard. If you were born & raised in Jersey...it should be in your blood. Going with the driving thing...snow flurries do not equal an immediate 45mile drop in the speed limit. Unless it is a freaking blizzard and you can't see 2 feet in front of you. Keep up with traffic. Don't go 5. You won't die. Oh...and learn to merge. One car goes, another goes, one car goes...another goes. Do you see a pattern? I do. Ah...and my favorite...Rt 38 is the NAME OF THE ROAD not the speedlimit!

5. I am female...I understand the hover abover method while in a public restroom. However, what I don't understand is how you get it all over the toilet. It shouldn't be that difficult to be in a directly downward stream. So, unless you girate your hips while you are peeing, I see nor eason for there to be tinkle droplets all over the toilet. If you manage to do this...please, look before you walk away. CLEAN IT OFF, it's your own pee. I don't want to have to do it. Also...you flush at home. Learn to flush when you're out. It is gross and not to mention helps stink the bathroom up. Its not that hard. Honestly. Ready? Step 1. turn around. Step 2. Lift foot and put on flusher handle thing. Step 3. press down. Step 4. Remove foot and place on floor. Step 5. leave the stall. See...you won't even break a sweat dirtball.

6. Hey, I am all about some PDA. An occasional peck, maybe a 3 second kiss, some hugging or hand holding. But please...do NOT dry hump in the corner.

7. Dress approriatley to the place you are hanging out at. Example. When you go to say... The Stone Grill, Top Dog (Taylors) or a club in Philly..feel free to wear your hair as pretty as it will go, as much makeup as you can cake on your face and the highest stillettos you think you can walk in. However if you find yourself at say The Pennant, Skeeters or Sugar Moms....dude jeans a cute shirt and like converse is good. You may still be the best dressed one there. I mean. Honsetly...do you NEED to be in 5 inch stilletto shoes booty shorts and a tight button down shirt while hanging outs ome place that had a "White Trash Wendsday" or a place that sells Bud Lite in a can? COME ON BITCHES!

8. When you are in the supermarket, the mall or anywhere that if I am looking at something, I can be in your way. Please, say excuse me. Don't just stand there and like ESP to me that you are there. I can't see behind me. Im not a mother yet...I don't have eyes in the back of my head.

9. I am a chubby girl. I wear clothes that are made for my body. Please, if you are a chubby girl, have the same courtesy. I do not need to be out and look over and see Shamu in a size 7 pair of jeans.

10. Finally, just stop pissing me off. Its not hard. Just read the previous 9 points!



Wow..that felt nice.

No more Billy Ray!

The Cheekers got his first haircut. I must say he looks MIGHTY fine! haha. He looks like such a big boy now! He did very well during the haircut too. He sat in the booster seat and wore the cape. Nana wet his hair and snip snip. We really only had one freak out. My mom gave him a lollipop and it must have made his hand sticky. Well, some of his cut hair got stuck to the hand and he flipped a shit! haha. It was the best! Anyway...here are the best pics I could get of him so far...he is way to mobile now for any good photography sessions! lol

Some people just can't catch a break!

Yay for me. I finally got my car, it will be registered and everything on Saturday. I am losing weight, I even got my 10lb thing from Weight Watchers. Plus, I have some other things in my life that are going pretty well that shall remain nameless =) Well, you wuld expect something to go wrong right? I was in the middle of a convo with my friend Meghan and my phone just stopped working. I think I got water in it. I can still text, I just can't talk on it. So, I go to Sprint.com ((yes I know...my first mistake is that) and I actually wind up redoing my plan. Instead of $83.99 a month for 300 anytime minutes, unlimited night and weekends, unlimited incoming and unlimited internet and texting I am now getting 450 anytime minutes and unlimited interenet/texting/night and weekends for $68.99

Not a big difference, but enough of one. Ya know? I also find out that I can get a new phone tact onto my bill. Yay WOOHOO! Im gonna get the LG Rumor. $300.99 added to my bill on top of my balance I have. PLUS the next months bill. So basically I am looking at a little over $500 by the middle of March. Plus, it has to pretty much be paid in full. Not to mention my car insurance and paying my dad back. So, I am just going to have to suck it up and save a little before I can get the phone. So, it looks like just texting for me! What the shit!

On a better note apparently, I am going to Flogging Molly in AC. That should be fun. I know one song lol Guess I should brush up huh? haha. Ok, onto playing with the kid...tata!